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The Destruction of Disagreement

Why does disagreement so quickly turn into outrage, mob mentality, or even violence in today’s culture? In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante examine the spiritual and relational roots behind the destruction of disagreement. From the loss of a shared moral center to identity-driven conflict and the rejection of authority, they explore what Scripture says about restraint, suffering, and peacemaking. This timely conversation challenges Christian fathers to model conviction with humility, truth with love, and strength under control in a fractured world.

Christmas in Genesis, Part 3: The Blessing of a Coming King

📖 EPISODE OVERVIEW

Christmas doesn’t begin in Bethlehem—it begins with a promise.

In this final episode of Christmas in Genesis, Dave and Dante unpack Judah’s prophecy from Genesis 49, where Jacob speaks of a coming King whose reign will never end. This ancient blessing points directly to Jesus, the Lion of Judah, and reveals what true kingship looks like—strength under control, authority with humility, and leadership rooted in sacrifice.

For fathers, this passage challenges how we think about power, leadership, and legacy in our homes.

👑 KEY SCRIPTURE

“The scepter shall not depart from Judah,
nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet,
until he comes to whom it belongs;
and the obedience of the nations shall be his.”
— Genesis 49:10

🛠 PRACTICAL TAKEAWAYS

  • Reflect on how you use authority in your marriage and parenting

  • Ask where God may be calling you to lead with humility rather than control

  • Model repentance and courage for your children

  • Point your family toward Christ—the true King—this Christmas season

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Christmas in Genesis, Part 2: Messy Families, Merciful God

📖 Episode Overview

When we think of Christmas, we often picture peace, perfection, and tidy manger scenes. But when we look back to Genesis, we find something very different — broken people, dysfunctional families, and repeated failure.

In this episode of the Christmas in Genesis series, Dave and Dante walk through the messy family tree that leads to Jesus and reveal a powerful truth every dad needs to hear:

God doesn’t wait for perfect families — He works through broken ones.

From Abraham’s deception, to Jacob’s favoritism, to Judah’s moral collapse, Genesis makes one thing clear: the line of the Messiah is anything but clean. And that’s exactly the point.

🔎 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • Why God intentionally chose flawed men and families to bring forth the Savior

  • How Genesis dismantles the myth of the “perfect dad”

  • What Judah’s story teaches us about repentance, responsibility, and redemption

  • How God’s mercy shows up again and again in generational brokenness

  • Why Christmas is ultimately a story of grace, not genetics

🧬 Key Passages Discussed

  • Genesis 12; 16; 27; 37–38 — A family marked by deceit, favoritism, and sin

  • Genesis 38 — Judah, Tamar, and the unexpected path of redemption

  • Matthew 1:1–6 — The Messiah’s genealogy includes scandal, outsiders, and grace

  • Romans 5:8 — God’s mercy meets us in our mess

👨‍👩‍👧 Application for Dads

This episode speaks directly to men who feel the weight of their failures:

  • You don’t need a perfect past to lead well today

  • God can redeem your mistakes and use them for good

  • Your repentance matters more than your record

  • Faithfulness now can change the legacy of generations to come

If you’ve ever felt disqualified as a husband or father, this conversation reminds you that God specializes in restoring broken men and broken families.

🔥 Big Takeaway

Christmas didn’t come through perfect people — it came through repentant ones.
God’s mercy is bigger than your mess, and His redemption reaches further than your failure.

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The Sin of Empathy with Dr. Joe Rigney

📖 Episode Overview

In this challenging and timely conversation, Dave and Dante sit down with theologian and author Dr. Joe Rigney to discuss a topic that has sparked significant debate in both Christian and cultural spaces: the sin of empathy.

Empathy is often celebrated as an unquestioned virtue—but what happens when empathy is detached from truth? Dr. Rigney helps clarify the difference between biblical compassion and disordered empathy, showing how misplaced emotional identification can lead men away from wisdom, courage, and faithful leadership.

This episode is especially relevant for fathers and husbands navigating emotional pressure, cultural confusion, and moral compromise—both inside the home and in the public square.

🔥 Key Topics Discussed

  • What Dr. Rigney means by “the sin of empathy”

  • Why empathy is not always a virtue when divorced from truth

  • The difference between compassion and emotional manipulation

  • How empathy can be weaponized in modern culture

  • Biblical examples of rightly ordered love and mercy

  • Why men are especially vulnerable to disordered empathy

  • How fathers can lead with both truth and tenderness

  • The role of courage and clarity in Christian masculinity

  • Teaching children to care without surrendering conviction

  • Pastoral and parental wisdom for engaging emotionally charged issues

🛡️ Legacy Dads Takeaways

  • Truth must lead love, not the other way around

  • Compassion does not require agreement

  • Fathers must model emotional strength rooted in Scripture

  • Saying “no” can be the most loving response

  • Biblical empathy always points people toward repentance, restoration, and Christ

📚 About the Guest

Dr. Joe Rigney is a theologian, author, and pastor known for his work on Christian ethics, masculinity, and cultural engagement. He has written extensively on the relationship between truth, love, and emotional formation within the church.

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Stand your ground like Shammah

Stand your ground like Shammah

🧔🏻‍♂️ Episode Summary:
In this episode, Dave and Dante dive into the brief but bold story of Shammah, one of David’s mighty men, found in 2 Samuel 23:11–12. Though only given two verses in the Bible, Shammah’s example of standing firm when everyone else fled offers a powerful challenge to Christian men today.
This is a call to faithfulness over fame, courage over compromise, and obedience over outcomes.
Dave and Dante break down what it means to identify your “field” — your calling, your responsibilities, your God-given territory — and stand your ground when the enemy tries to take it.

🔑 Key Takeaways:
    •    Every man has a field — marriage, fatherhood, ministry, work, or personal integrity — and the enemy always wants to steal it.
    •    Shammah stood alone, but he didn’t stand in his own strength. “The Lord worked a great victory.” (2 Samuel 23:12)
    •    Faithfulness in small things is not overlooked by God.
    •    Standing firm is the mark of mature manhood.
    •    Victory belongs to God, but obedience belongs to us.

📖 Scripture Referenced:
    •    2 Samuel 23:11–12 – Shammah stands in the lentil field
    •    1 Corinthians 16:13 – “Act like men” and stand firm
    •    Luke 16:10 – Faithful in little = faithful in much
    •    Ephesians 6:13 – The armor of God and standing firm
    •    Exodus 14:14 – The Lord fights for you
    •    Galatians 6:9 – Don’t grow weary in doing good

🛠️ Practical Application:
    1    Identify your “field” – Where has God called you to be faithful right now?
    2    Stand your ground – What distractions or spiritual attacks are tempting you to walk away?
    3    Trust God for the results – He brings the victory when we stay obedient.

🧠 Discussion Questions:
    1    What “field” has God given you that you might be tempted to abandon?
    2    Where have you seen God fight on your behalf when you chose to stand firm?
    3    How do we encourage other men to hold the line when culture tells them to give up?

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When Faith Meets Policy

When Faith Meets Policy

🔥 Episode Overview

In this episode, Dave and Dante tackle one of the biggest cultural and spiritual questions facing Christian men today:

Should our faith influence our political decisions — or should religion stay out of politics?

A recent survey shared by Answers in Genesis found that over half of U.S. adults believe religion should not play a role in politics — and even among Christians, many agree.

But as men of faith, husbands, and fathers, we’re called to lead with integrity and consistency. This episode dives into what Scripture says about how faith should shape every area of life — from our homes to the public square.

🧭 Main Takeaways

1. There is no such thing as neutrality.
Every person’s worldview shapes their decisions — including political ones. The question isn’t if faith influences politics, but whose faith or worldview does.

2. God’s rule covers every sphere.

“The earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereof.” — Psalm 24:1 (ESV)
Faith isn’t something we switch off when we leave church. Christ’s authority extends into how we lead, vote, serve, and live publicly.

3. Compartmentalized faith is compromised faith.
When men separate their beliefs from their civic responsibility, we lose moral clarity and spiritual influence.

4. The Bible speaks to public life.
From the prophets confronting injustice to Paul appealing to the Roman government, Scripture models faithful engagement — not silence.

5. Engage with humility and courage.
Faith-driven men can influence culture without becoming combative or partisan. The goal isn’t political dominance — it’s faithful witness.

⚔️ Key Scriptures (ESV)

  • Psalm 24:1 – God’s ownership of all creation.

  • Matthew 28:18 – Christ’s authority in heaven and on earth.

  • Philippians 3:20 – Our heavenly citizenship guiding our earthly conduct.

  • 1 Corinthians 16:13 – Stand firm in faith and strength.

  • Galatians 6:9 – Don’t grow weary in doing good.

💬 Discussion Questions for Men’s Groups or Listeners

  1. Have you ever felt pressure to keep your faith “private”? Where does that come from?

  2. What would it look like for your Christian convictions to shape how you engage in civic life without becoming self-righteous or combative?

  3. How can we model Christlike engagement in a culture that increasingly rejects biblical values?

  4. What’s one practical way you can bring your faith into your local community this month?

🧠 Practical Challenges for the Week

  • Pray before you post or vote. Ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom and humility.

  • Read Micah 6:8 and reflect on what it means to “do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly.”

  • Engage in conversation, not confrontation. Invite dialogue with someone who disagrees with you.

  • Model civility. Be the calm, faithful voice in a noisy, polarized world.

🙏 Legacy Challenge

“Faith that doesn’t shape how you live is faith that’s shrinking.”

Men — it’s time to bridge the gap between what we believe and how we live.
Be watchful. Stand firm. Act like men. Be strong.
And let your faith lead the way — even when the world tells you to sit down.

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