S P R I N K L E D

sprinkledHebrews 10:22 (NIV) 22 let us draw near to God with a sincere heart and with the full assurance that faith brings, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water.1 Thessalonians 4:1-11 (NIV) Living to Please God:  " 4 As for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living.   Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. 2 For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.  3 It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body[a] in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God; 6 and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.[b] The Lord will punish all those who commit such sins, as we told you and warned you before. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. 8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.   9 Now about your love for one another we do not need to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love each other. 10 And in fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia. Yet we urge you, brothers and sisters, to do so more and more, 11 and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,"

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Clearly we all need to be SPRINKLED WITH GOD'S LOVE AND TRUTH AS FOLLOWS:

S - Set your minds on things above where Christ is seated at the right hand of God

P - Put away the earthly things that turn your love from Him

R - Rid yourselves of those things that turn you away (get rid of the fruitless things)

I - In Christ

N - not what we do, but Christ in us through His Spirit

K - through his knowledge through his word and the kindness that he gives us to do to others as we would have done to us

L - Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly

E - Every Christian should clothe ourselves with God's Fruit (Read Galatians 5)

D - In whatever you do, in word or deed, do it all for Jesus

Be blessed,

Dante

 

Why not sex before marriage (nor outside of marriage) part 1

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New International Version (NIV)

Concerning Married Life

 

7 Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Pure Religion instead of men's traditions...

imagesJohn 5:30-47New International Version (NIV)

30 By myself I can do nothing; I judge only as I hear, and my judgment is just, for I seek not to please myself but him who sent me.

Testimonies About Jesus

31 “If I testify about myself, my testimony is not true. 32 There is another who testifies in my favor, and I know that his testimony about me is true.  33 “You have sent to John and he has testified to the truth. 34 Not that I accept human testimony; but I mention it that you may be saved. 35 John was a lamp that burned and gave light, and you chose for a time to enjoy his light.  36 “I have testimony weightier than that of John. For the works that the Father has given me to finish—the very works that I am doing—testify that the Father has sent me. 37 And the Father who sent me has himself testified concerning me. You have never heard his voice nor seen his form, 38 nor does his word dwell in you, for you do not believe the one he sent. 39 You study[a] the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me, 40 yet you refuse to come to me to have life.  41 “I do not accept glory from human beings, 42 but I know you. I know that you do not have the love of God in your hearts. 43 I have come in my Father’s name, and you do not accept me; but if someone else comes in his own name, you will accept him. 44 How can you believe since you accept glory from one another but do not seek the glory that comes from the only God[b]?  45 “But do not think I will accuse you before the Father. Your accuser is Moses, on whom your hopes are set. 46 If you believed Moses, you would believe me, for he wrote about me. 47 But since you do not believe what he wrote, how are you going to believe what I say?”

Where did Moses write about Jesus?

Deuteronomy 18:14-22

New International Version (NIV)

The Prophet

18-scroll214 The nations you will dispossess listen to those who practice sorcery or divination. But as for you, the Lord your God has not permitted you to do so. 15 The Lord your God will raise up for you a prophet like me from among you, from your fellow Israelites. You must listen to him. 16 For this is what you asked of the Lord your God at Horeb on the day of the assembly when you said, “Let us not hear the voice of the Lord our God nor see this great fire anymore, or we will die.”

17 The Lord said to me: “What they say is good. 18 I will raise up for them a prophet like you from among their fellow Israelites, and I will put my words in his mouth. He will tell them everything I command him. 19 I myself will call to account anyone who does not listen to my words that the prophet speaks in my name. 20 But a prophet who presumes to speak in my name anything I have not commanded, or a prophet who speaks in the name of other gods, is to be put to death.”

21 You may say to yourselves, “How can we know when a message has not been spoken by the Lord?” 22 If what a prophet proclaims in the name of the Lord does not take place or come true, that is a message the Lord has not spoken. That prophet has spoken presumptuously, so do not be alarmed.

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truelightappearedforoursalvationTo give you some background on the Scripture in John Chapter 5, we read that Jesus just healed a man who was a beggar who was crippled and could not walk.  Jesus healed him on the Sabbath and told him to pick up his mat and walk.  The religiuous leaders of the time were angered that someone healed a man on a Sabbath.  How dare this healed man carry anything on the Sabbath.  They later found it was Jesus who healed this man and then they wanted to destroy him.  Let's think about that for a moment:  Jesus healed a man, told him to get up and walk and carry his mat and what he said to do - HAPPENED.

The Author of Life was before man and was saying to them - don't let religion get in the way of the truth.  Jesus is the truth.  Jesus is the way.  No man can come to the Father (God) but through Jesus.

I agree with Lance on his previous post, Religion is the problem.  We let tradition and practice get in the way Jesus Christ, the Son of God.  We let our insecurities and pride and anger and search for significance and lust in the way of true faith.  Jesus said to these leaders that they search the scriptures daily (a lot of these leaders even memorized books of the Bible.  In their very own brand of religion, they missed the one and only true Messiah.

What are you holding to?  Are you missing the very one who calls us to be his?  We should listen to God's Son as He is the way, the truth and the life.  Moses had so much to saw about this man:

  • Jesus is represented as the Passover Lamb (why we need the perfect Lamb)
  • Jesus testified that He is the bread of life (Moses prayed for Manna)
  • Jesus is the Living Water (Moses struck the Rock for water)
  • Jesus is the prophet that Moses spoke about

From Genesis to Revelation please don't misunderstand that Jesus is the reason, the way and the only truth we should believe to be saved.  Religion will not,  could not nor ever will replace Him.

Be a true disciple,

Dante

Religion Is The Problem

One of the questions I've struggled with and chewed on for the past few years is why do so many people seem to have shallow faith?  Why do many Christians spend their time and energy fighting each other and arguing minutia in theology rather than advancing God's kingdom and helping others.  The reason, I believe, is that many people are learning and practicing religion instead of faith.truefaith

Recently, I stumbled upon a Christian website with numerous members whose sole activity was to belittle and attack any other Christian or Pastor who has written a bestselling book.  They'd take passages out of context and find one line or word in a 300 page book to basically label the author as a false-teacher.  They prided themselves in "outing" this author and they claimed to have the "true faith." They seemed to favor a legalistic, rules based type of religion and held everyone else (except themselves) to impossible standards of perfection.  My question was "who were these self righteous people and how can they claim to practice the same faith as me?"

I often work and talk with atheists and former Christians and when I ask them to describe their experience with Christianity they describe an environment of strict rules, assimilation, judgement and hypocrisy.  One recent comment on this site states "The most rewarding thing I've ever done is abandon the lies and falsehoods of the Christian faith and embrace atheistic skepticism. When you've been captured by religion whether through indoctrination or emotional epiphany you generally don't see the grip it has over you but once you've broken free of it's hold the delusional nature of Christian belief becomes glaringly obvious. You feel at once liberated and yet embarrassed to have been duped by such irrational dogma."

These descriptions of a "faith experience" all seem similar.  They seem forced, controlling, legalistic and practiced out of sense of guilt rather than of free-will faith and love.  They describe a religious experience where they feel captive and coerced into practicing and believing.  They describe their experience with God like it was a horrible job they hated going to each day.

Why is their experience so vastly different from my own?  I honestly believe it was because they were practicing religion rather than faith.

Religion is a man-made system of rules, dogma and cultural norms.  Religion seeks conformity, obedience and not questioning or challenging the system.

Religious people approach faith like a college course.  They think the answers lay in showing up each week and spending a lot of time reading, analyzing and debating the intricacies and minutia of the text.  They also throw in some rules and cultural norms which are pleasing to them (but often have no or minimal Biblical basis) and eventually they start developing a judgmental attitude towards anyone who does not fall into line with their opinions or their version of religion.

The problem with this type of religion and churches that practice it, is that they create a "check the box" experience.  You can show up on Sunday, wear the right clothes, sing loud, toss some money in the plate and generally be seen as a "good Christian."

This type of religion is academic and image based - in other words - shallow.  This type of experience is also the #1 reason cited by many former Christians why they choose to leave the faith and why they never want anything to do with a church again.

We need to stop practicing and perpetuating this fallacy of religion and start living and leading a legacy of faith.

Authentic Faith cannot be earned with good behavior or by memorizing hundreds of Bible verses.  It cannot be won by bribing God or by spouting deep theological knowledge on Predestination.

Authentic Faith was paid for at Calvary and is our wonderful gift given by God's grace alone.  It has to be freely accepted at a time and place where the Holy Spirit truly moves your heart.

Once Authentic Faith is accepted, it changes your life forever.  Authentic Faith is illustrated by dying to oneself and giving to others each and every day.  It's caring about your neighbors more than yourself.  It's displayed on a daily basis in our actions, thoughts and words.  It's the choices we make behind closed doors, behind the keyboard when no one is looking and it's choosing to be obedient to God's plan rather than our own ambitions and pleasures.

Authentic Faith can be broken down into four phases.

Phase I is Experienced Faith - this is where we participate in customs and rituals of the faith tradition with other Christians.  Our faith is experienced with our senses through worship, Biblical stories and basic theology.  If you were raised in the church as a child, you were assimilated into this type of experienced faith.

Phase II is Affiliative Faith, this faith develops by being affiliated with a Christian community and fellowship.  Affiliative Faith involves social, spiritual, and service activities, which provide opportunities for people to deepen their relationships with other Christians.  This may also include small groups, Bible studies, retreats and conferences.

Sadly, many Christians never get past these first 2 phases.  They spend the majority of their lives repeating Phases 1 and II on a weekly basis and simply look for "new" or "different" experiences of these first 2 phases.  They are often attracted to the experience that is the most entertaining for them.

Phase III is Searching Faith, this is the phase where faith is questioned and challenged.  Sadly, many Christian youth raised in the church come to this point and when they ask hard questions about the faith, they are given weak answers.  Many Christian adults reach this phase when they become dissatisfied with their experience and instead of asking hard faith questions to someone trained in Apologetics, they instead turn to the internet or friends who will tell them all the reasons why what they believe is wrong.  Instead of objectively looking at all sides of Christianity or the mountains of peer reviewed scientific, historical and anthropological evidence, they will take whatever answers seem more appealing and pleasurable and choose to accept them as truth.  Sadly, many people walk away from their faith at this point.  I think both the Church and the individual share the blame for this failure.  It takes time and effort to truly search for objective faith answers from both sides and most people don't take the time.  The Church also does a very poor job of answering and handling these questions too, so both are at fault.  For a brief synopsis of my own personal journey through this stage, read My Post Here.

If Phase III was done objectively by the participant and the Church did a better job of equipping it's followers, many people would come out of Phase III with a renewed sense of strong faith that can handle any objections and challenges.  This is the point when followers realize and internalize their faith as absolute truth.

Phase IV is Owned Faith, this is the phase where followers experience great enlightenment in their lives.  This is the stage where faith becomes less about oneself and more about God and helping others.  In this phase, faith becomes about living your life congruent with your faith and beliefs.  In this phase, other followers can hold you accountable to practice and live what you claim to believe.  This phase involves submitting your life to God's will and plan and letting God lead you in your decisions in life.  This phase brings about a spiritual maturity that ends judgement, gossip and destructive, irrational decisions.  Owned Faith breeds confidence, humbleness, calm and clarity and childlike trust in God.  Owned Faith is an absolute joy in your life and never feels like a chore or burden.  I've honestly never met anyone with this type of faith who one day up and left their faith or the church.

So how do we get to Authentic Faith?

1. Be Proactive. Each person must walk through this journey of their own free will.  The Church nor anyone else can hold your hand and get you out of your comfort zone.  Start by looking at your current Faith Phase.  What phase are you in? What phase are you struggling with?  Start by working on that phase and developing your own plan to work on and through that phase.

2. Surround Yourself With Authentic Faith.  Some of the biggest growth in my life has happened when I stepped out of my comfort zone and started associating with people who were at the level I wanted to be at.  Find someone you believe has authentic faith and ask to take them out for coffee.  Ask them about their  faith, their practices, their daily lives.  Maybe even ask them to mentor you or be an accountability partner for you.  If you can find a group of people like this and stay committed and accountable, you will grow and better yourself.  Read The Law of the Lid.

3. Take Decisive Action Now.  What would your authentic faith look like?  Start committing to living that way today. Volunteer for a missions trip or to work with the youth in your church.  Start spending just 5 minutes per day reading the Bible.  Start doing random acts of kindness around the house, at work and in your community.  Start leading your wife, kids, family in a weekly Bible study.  Start acting and living like Jesus was by your side every single day.  Don't think or sleep on it, just commit to it and take action to put the wheels in motion.  I often shoot off emails to leaders committing to things before I have a chance to talk myself out of them, it's a way to keep myself accountable.

If you're reading this and you've yet to experience an Authentic Faith, I pray that you'll take the steps and take action to make it happen.  It's a wonderful and life changing place to be in and you'll never regret the journey.  If you've left the faith because of a bad religious experience, I challenge you to find someone with Authentic Faith and have a conversation with them.  Heck, shoot me an email. I won't try to convert you and I love challenging questions or faith debates.

Wherever you are, I pray that you will know that Jesus Christ was the ultimate example of what we should be living every single day.  No one is perfect but the more we follow His example, the closer and happier we become to living a life of Authentic Faith.

Esse Quam Videri

- Lance

God is able....He will never fail!

James 5:19-20New International Version (NIV)

19 My brothers and sisters, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back,20 remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a god is ablemultitude of sins.

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"God Is Able", from Hillsong

[Verse 1]God is ableHe will never failHe is almighty GodGreater than all we seekGreater than all we askHe has done great things

[Chorus]Lifted upHe defeated the graveRaised to lifeOur God is ableIn His nameWe overcomeFor the LordOur God is able

[Verse 2]God is with usGod is on our sideHe will make a wayFar above all we knowFar above all we hopeHe has done great things

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He will never failI am so amazed everyday by the power and awesomeness of our God.  This past Saturday I had the privilege to lead our men's group called Men of Faith.  I challenged the guys at the end of the large group session and am still hearing great feedback from all of it.

Things that were once dead, once hopeless and once left for naught have been confessed and put in the light of truth and are being carried by other brothers.  No longer are we under the weight of that voice of lies that says that we are not worth it, that no one can help, that all is hopeless - just settle?  IGNORE THESE VOICES AND THOUGHTS - they are lies of our sinful past!  They are lies from the pit of hell.

The devil and his angels would like nothing more than for us to be in ambiguity and mediocrity.  They crave for us to live lives filled with anxiety, hopelessness and defeat.  For to have them mute us from our new creation (our redemption) is to convince us that what God did for us through His son was not enough - this my friends, is a lie.

Do not believe these things.  Do not listen to these words, thoughts or evil deeds - for they are contrary to the will of God.  Jesus died on a cross for our sins and paid the ultimate price, only to claim victory over death.  O Death, where is thy sting?  The grave has been defeated - God is able.  The once dead has been made alive in Jesus Christ - He has risen!

What do we need to do to overcome:

  • Trust in God
  • Believe in His Son - Jesus
  • Confess our sins to him
  • Renounce our former lives
  • Tell him our hurts and pain
  • Get faithful men to hold you accountable
  • Read the word together
  • Worship together
  • Sing songs together
  • Pray together
  • Share life together
  • Be honest with one another
  • Let our God heal you and bless you
  • Believe in his abundant life plan for our lives
  • God is Able!

Do you believe?

Blessings,Dante

 

Men are having a hard time being men....

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"Men are having a hard time being men...first of all you have all the addictions:  The pornography, the gambling, the alcohol, cocaine, the food - all that...you also have all the brokenness and so on....", by John Eldredge.  What do you do with all this evidence for men.  It all falls back to the deep wound that men incur or have had happened to them when they are younger.  What needs to happen here, is that we need to heal the heart of man.  We need to have men in the word everyday and praying every day so that the Holy Spirit will do His work in us.

CRISIS - YOU NEED TO HEAL THE HEART OF MEN - by John Eldredge

Proverbs talks about this:

Proverbs 20:5

English Standard Version (ESV)

The purpose in a man's heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.

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This past Friday, I got home from a long work week and finished some afternoon reports, work around the house and was just taking a moment to spend on my IPAD when my son came and asked me if he and I could watch the move Courageous.  I told him that I would be there in ten minutes to watch with him.  Ten minutes later, my wife stopped acting like a wife and became my proverbial mother and politely reminded me of my manhood and father responsibilities:  To be a legacy dad, I have to get in the game.  I got up and sat next to him on the couch and watched the entire movie with just him and I.  There was a lot of biblical truth and so forth in this movie.  As a matter of point, Lance and I joke about there resolution and believe that they took a lot of that from www.legacydad.com (okay, so we all agree - we stand on the Word of God).

The most awesome part of me getting "out of the boat" and engaged with my son is that I could have missed this ever so important conversation about faith and value and legacy with my 10 year old son if I would have continued to put myself first.  I would have missed the opportunity of showing my son that he is first and he and his two sisters are the forefront of my spiritual assignment and mission field given to me by God.  Not only do I have to be leader of my house, I have to be actively involved in the every day process.

After the kids were tucked in bed and my wife was working on some projects, I finished my Saturday morning "Facilitator Lead" to talk with men.  I had asked our senior pastor over years of pastoring/counseling what he thought were the top three things that men struggle with, he said, "Significance, Lust and Anger".  On Saturday, we covered the following bible verses:  Ephesians 2:1-3, Proverbs 6:16-19, 12:1, 15:3, 28:13-14; 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 and Psalms 139:23-24.

And then we read Hebrews 12:1-15, James 5:19-20.

I asked the following questions:

  1. What do we struggle with the most?
  2. Why do we do the same thing over and over again (the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result each time).
  3. Why do we try to be god-like (selfish, bitter and idolatry)?
  4. Why do we settle for mediocrity in life, marriage and happiness (things that hold us back: pornography, hate, lust, anger, addicitions)?
  5. What is your sin?

In the beginning of our men's ministry on Saturday morning, we have worship, then we have large group (what i discussed above) and then from 7:10 to roughly 8am we break into small groups and for 30 minutes discuss the topic and pointed questions and then we pray and confess and carry each other's burdens.  This is a huge relational ministry and I love seeing the fruit that God is giving it.  Our secret, we open the word, we worship together, we pray together and we share life together - and the Holy Spirit does the rest - AMEN!

So after watching the movie, Courageous, with my son on Friday and after leading Men of Faith on Saturday, I confessed these things in my small group:

  • I am lazy and slothful (downright selfish at times) and I need to step it up
  • I am the leader of my house (I need to act like it more)
  • I married my wife and my best friend (not my mom) so I need to stop putting her in that situation to act like my mom
  • I set the tone for the family and the direction (if I get engaged they will respond)
  • I need this Men of Faith and accountability partners to keep me honest, humble and growing toward being God's disciple
  • I need to be the Legacy Dad (round the clock)

If I am serious the my spiritual role as Elder, Men's Ministry Leader and so on, then I will have to be intentional with my family, my church, my community and my work.  If I am striving to be the man that God wants me to be, then I will take His Word seriously all the time and build relationship with the Holy Trinity.

I am a disciple, I am a man of faith and I am a legacy dad!

Esse quam videri!

Blessings,

Dante

 

Only Read This If You're A Man Over 35

Disclaimer: So this post is going to be way off topic and probably sound like some infomercial or like I'm trying to sell you something with affiliate marketing but I assure you I'm not and there will be no popups or "click this link" stuff involved.  I simply want to share this stuff with the readers here at Legacy Dad.  First my story...

Old School_0001 2As a young man, I was always in shape and throughout my early and mid twenties I sported six-pack abs while eating and drinking whatever I wanted.  Then life, kids, career and my thirties hit.

Over the past 10 years, I've consistently put on weight each year as well as going up in pants sizes.  This was happening while I was trying diets, following all the health magazines advice and hitting the gym 3-4 times per week while running and doing cardio.

No matter how much I dieted or worked out, it seemed I could only lose a pound or two which would inevitable come back.  In 2013, I went over the 200 pound mark for the first time in my life and realized my energy levels were way down. I was taking 5 hour energies, energy drinks and drinking coffee all day long just to keep up.  On top of this, my knees and joints started hurting too.  All the health mags talked about calorie deficits which meant dieting and doing long cardio session.  But this did not work for me either and killed my knees and joints.

During this time period, I did a weekend conference where a photographer got some shots of me speaking. When I looked at the shots, I was appalled.  I was fat, plain and simple.  I then started watching some documentaries on nutrition and had a long conversation with a friend at work who was in remission from cancer.  Through this research and my friend's advice, I learned some "secrets" - Men over 35 need to diet and work out differently to lose weight and the low-fat diets and long distance cardio can actually counter our fat loss goals.Lance - Parenting Conference-38

Okay, let me break it down simple and I'm going to tell you exactly what I did to lose 15 pounds in the past 1.5 months even after trying for years with no progress.  In the next month, I might even have a six-pack again!!!

1.  Certain foods make you fat and lower your testosterone.   

The two biggest substances that made me fat were wheat and sugar.  For years friends tried to tell me to stop eating wheat and sugar and I always laughed and thought they were fanatical, health nuts.  Gluten-Free is just a fad.  Actually, in my case, its not.  I quickly learned that every time I ate highly, refined wheat - my stomach would bulge and protrude shortly afterwards. Look at the picture to the top right, this is after eating wheat and drinking a soy coffee. You can see my belly sticking out through my shirt.  After years of ignoring friends, I finally stopped eating wheat 1.5 months ago (which is not easy because it's in almost everything, even ketchup.) and went on a Paleo diet.  A Paelo diet is what anthropologists believe humans ate for thousands of years before the Industrial Revolution, it's the hunter-gatherer methodology.  Regardless of what blogs say, they have not found any strict vegan or vegetarian cave men.  Basically, I can eat meat, fish, lots of fruits and vegges, nuts and I throw in rice and gluten-free pasta on occasion.  I cut out wheat, most dairy and sugar but I do have a cheat meal once per week.  I stopped drinking beer and went to wine or scotch!  This is not much of a diet to me as I'm still eating steak and most of the foods I like.

Note: This might sound hard for some people, I thought I would go crazy craving bread.   However, my cravings went away after a week and now I'm fine with no bread, wheat and minimal sugar.  

2. Certain foods are Estrogenic and actually lower men's testosterone.

This is bad because after 30, our testosterone is naturally decreasing so the last thing we want to do is add fuel to the fire.  I won't go too in-depth but I drank and ate a lot of soy because I thought is was healthier than regular dairy products.  Turns out soy is one of the worst foods for men.  I also stop drinking out of plastic water bottles as they contain bits of plastic which also reduces testosterone and I now simply fill up a nalgene bottle with ice water each day at home from the purifier or before I go to the gym.  Some other bad stuff is oxybezones, large amounts of green tea, and DEET.   To counter all the years of crap I put into my body, I took a natural testosterone booster from a vitamin store - see the end of the post for specifics.

3.  Long Distance Running is not the best way to burn fat and lose weight. 

This is always highly contested, especially from those guys that like running long distances for hours (Dante!)  I generally hate running and have never had the "runners high" even though I use to run 20 or more miles per week and sometimes half marathons in my younger days.  For me, the shorter amount of time, the better.  Luckily, science is on my side.  There are a lot of studies out there all saying the same thing - High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT) burns fat faster and longer than long, sustained cardio sessions.  Which means I'll burn more fat in 20 minutes than those people who spend an hour moderately jogging on a treadmill.  Don't hate me, it's science!  Here are three of those studies for all you fact checkers (Laval University Study, Metabolism Study, Tabata Study)   Basically, doing High Intensity Interval Cardio (like sprints) tricks your body's metabolism and causes you to burn larger amounts of fat for longer periods of time.  Studies have shown that HIIT workouts can burn fat for up to 24 hours after the workout.  In fact, for decades most of the elite forces in our military were running 20-30 miles per week but after 15 years most soldiers knees were shot and needed knee replacement surgery.  Finally, the military looked at modern medicine and science and said enough is enough.  Most elite forces have now gone to a HIIT or functional fitness model versus the long distance running model.

My HIIT workouts were quick and went like this:

Sprints - 30 seconds with 60 second rest period x 8 times - 3 days per week.

Battle Ropes (Google it) - 30 seconds with 60 second rest period x 8 times.

Swimming - 30 seconds with 60 second rest period x 8 times.

Elliptical - 30 seconds with 60 second rest period x 8 times.

Rowing Machine - 30 seconds with 60 second rest period x 8 times.

Jump Rope - 30 seconds with 60 second rest period x 8 times.

You get the idea.

And that's basically it.  In the past month and half, I've lost 15 pounds doing this and I'm still losing pounds everyday.  My joints no longer hurt, my energy levels are way up and I feel great.  I'm eating less and I'm no longer tempted to even touch breads (sugar is still an issue though)  I'm not saying this will work for everyone but after years of trying all sorts of things - this is what is working for me.

Here's exactly everything I take, eat and do.

Morning - Start with a large glass of cold, purified ice water, then Protein Shake (Hydrolyzed Whey Isolate) or Fresh Juice from a Juicing machine and black coffee

Vitamins as directed - Opti-Men Multivitamin (the best for men, I've tried them all), 1000 mg Vitamin C, 5000 iu Vitamin D3 twice per day, BioAstin Astaxanthin Antioxidant, Spirulina twice per day, MegaRed Omega 3 Krill Oil

Weight Loss and Testosterone Booster - Cellucor Super HD (2 in the morning, 1 after lunch) and Cellucor P6 Extreme Black (3 tablets - 30 minutes before workouts)

Snacks - Salted Almonds, Fruits, 2 Degrees Bars

Lunch - Steak or Chicken Breast, Fruit, Vegges, Salad

Dinner with Family - I only eat the meats, fruits and vegges of whatever my wife makes.

Workouts - Cardio as listed above x 3 days per week (20-30 minutes max)  Gym x 3 days per week for weight training.

Another Protein Shake immediately after the workout

Again, I'm not selling anything.  After years of trying different diets, fads and workouts, this one really works and works fast.  I wish I would have found this sooner.

Esse Quam Videri

Lance

Job's Faith - ultimately shaken but not destroyed....

jobOften, I find myself reading the Word of God and realizing sometimes how much I shrink my faith, if even at the worst possible times I would have faith at all, given the many situations that life brings us:  Pain, suffering, trial, tribulation, joy, heartbreak, peace, war, and the like.  The week before Easter I spent time in the Book of John and as I said earlier listened to the entire CS Lewis's Screwtape Letters.  The point being, have I ever had that moment where the only place to turn was God?  Have I ever had that moment that brought me to my knees and where did my faith take me.As we begin to read,  Job 1, (ESV) Job's Character and Wealth  1 There was a man in the land of Uz whose name was Job, and that man was blameless and upright, one who feared God and turned away from evil. There were born to him seven sons and three daughters. He possessed 7,000 sheep, 3,000 camels, 500 yoke of oxen, and 500 female donkeys, and very many servants, so that this man was the greatest of all the people of the east. His sons used to go and hold a feast in the house of each one on his day, and they would send and invite their three sisters to eat and drink with them. And when the days of the feast had run their course, Job would send and consecrate them, and he would rise early in the morning and offer burnt offerings according to the number of them all. For Job said, “It may be that my children have sinned, and cursed[a] God in their hearts.” Thus Job did continually.

As a parent, we learn a path quickly in this journey, trust God, lean not on our own understanding but trust in God no matter what, pray to Him continually.  Lift up prayers to God the Father every day for our children who are walking with Him or walking away.  God loves them more than we, as parents ever can.

As we continue to read, we learn that there is a dialogue between God and Satan,

Job 1:6-22

English Standard Version (ESV)

Satan Allowed to Test Job

Now there was a day when the sons of God came to present themselves before the Lord, and Satan[a] also came among them. The Lord said to Satan, “From where have you come?” Satan answered the Lord and said, “From going to and fro on the earth, and from walking up and down on it.” And the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from evil?” Then Satan answered the Lord and said, “Does Job fear God for no reason? 10 Have you not put a hedge around him and his house and all that he has, on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land. 11 But stretch out your hand and touch all that he has, and he will curse you to your face.” 12 And the Lord said to Satan, “Behold, all that he has is in your hand. Only against him do not stretch out your hand.” So Satan went out from the presence of the Lord.

Satan Takes Job's Property and Children

13 Now there was a day when his sons and daughters were eating and drinking wine in their oldest brother's house, 14 and there came a messenger to Job and said, “The oxen were plowing and the donkeys feeding beside them, 15 and the Sabeans fell upon them and took them and struck down the servants[b] with the edge of the sword, and I alone have escaped to tell you.” 16 While he was yet speaking, there came another and said, “The fire of God fell from heaven and burned up the sheep and the servants and consumed them, and I alone have escaped to tell you.” 17 While he was yet speaking, there came another and said, “The Chaldeans formed three groups and made a raid on the camels and took them and struck down the servants with the edge of the sword, and I alone have escaped to tell you.” 18 While he was yet speaking, there came another and said, “Your sons and daughters were eating and drinking wine in their oldest brother's house, 19 and behold, a great wind came across the wilderness and struck the four corners of the house, and it fell upon the young people, and they are dead, and I alone have escaped to tell you.”

20 Then Job arose and tore his robe and shaved his head and fell on the ground and worshiped. 21 And he said, “Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”

22 In all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong.

Job by KulhanekThis is a hard part of the story as we realize that his faith is tested and that God is sovereign and that no matter what, Satan can do nothing without God.  God is in control!!!  The hard part of this story, for me, is that in a shadow of an eye and a blink of the light, everything is gone- Everything.  The only thing left was his wife and him and a few servants bearing the bad news.  Job's response amazes me and makes me question my faith, And he said, “Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”

Just when  you thought that nothing could get worse, Job's best friends come to be with him.  At first you think this could be good, they will lay out their hands for him and comfort him and encourage him and urge him to live a life worthy of God, instead they virtually condemn him and say that surely there must be something in his life that is unrepentant and that he needs to turn toward God.  They go on and on in their discourses about the wisdom of God and what God's opinions would be on all this matter.

This should be a careful warning for us all:  Do not try to speak for God, let His words of truth do.  In everything look for God's fruit, if you see it, then don't condemn it.  If you don't see it then help the person(s) look for it.  And if you see the fruit of the sinful nature present, then ask for God's wisdom and discernment in how to handle it (if God wants you involved at all).

There is a moment of that knee bending faith that came to me about 5 years ago and then again 4 years ago - I almost lost my wife to a rare situation that almost brought her body to renal failure.  To this day we do not know how it happens but we know that when she has fevers it triggers that mechanism which breaks down the muscle in her body which overruns the body in which cause life threatening issues, needless to say, thank you Lord that the past few years have been without incident (although this week she has encountered a bad cold which has led to some fevers - praise God that they have not triggered anything!).  After the first episode five years ago, my wife was hospitalized for 6 days.  I had nowhere to go, no place to turn except the Word of God and for friends and loved ones to pray, to pitch in and to comfort my family (I thank God for these people in my life).  My life and my world were turned upside down.  At this time I had a two-year old, and 4 and 5-year-old - what was I to do (after this my outlook and respect for single parents completely changed).  By day four, I was deep into Colossians, Romans and Job and the phone rang and it was the prayer team leader of our church who called to tell me that a few women and her were praying for my wife's healing and for our family.  Right before they called I had this peace come over me.  You see, the night before I wrestled and cried and argued with God and asked him if this was His plan for my life.  After hours of tears and lack-less sleep the words that He was waiting on finally came across my lips - not my will, Lord, but your will be done.  You love her and you know what's best, she is yours, I give everything to you.  After the phone call, I smiled and sang praises to my God.  My wife was still in the hospital for another 30 hours, but I had this unbelievable peace.  What is really cool is that 2000 miles away, my mother-in-law, who was coming back from Florida had this exact time and exact peace that I did - God is in control!!!

After reading and pouring through Job, I had a new-found respect for this unbelievable servant of God:

  • He knew Jesus Christ
  • He believed that Jesus was to be Messiah and that He alone would be his intermediary
  • He defended the weak and poor and the victims of this earth
  • He was very content

At this point you are asking yourself, how did he know Jesus, well let me present the following scripture:

Job 9:33-35

New International Version (NIV)

33 If only there were someone to mediate between us,     someone to bring us together, 34 someone to remove God’s rod from me,     so that his terror would frighten me no more. 35 Then I would speak up without fear of him,     but as it now stands with me, I cannot.

Job 16:19-21

New International Version (NIV)

19 Even now my witness is in heaven;     my advocate is on high. 20 My intercessor is my friend[a]     as my eyes pour out tears to God; 21 on behalf of a man he pleads with God     as one pleads for a friend.

Job 19:25

New International Version (NIV)

25 I know that my redeemer[a] lives,     and that in the end he will stand on the earth

Secondly, Job teaches us how we should live in our place in the world:

Job 29:7-17

New International Version (NIV)

“When I went to the gate of the city     and took my seat in the public square, the young men saw me and stepped aside     and the old men rose to their feet; the chief men refrained from speaking     and covered their mouths with their hands; 10 the voices of the nobles were hushed,     and their tongues stuck to the roof of their mouths. 11 Whoever heard me spoke well of me,     and those who saw me commended me, 12 because I rescued the poor who cried for help,     and the fatherless who had none to assist them. 13 The one who was dying blessed me;     I made the widow’s heart sing. 14 I put on righteousness as my clothing;     justice was my robe and my turban. 15 I was eyes to the blind     and feet to the lame. 16 I was a father to the needy;     I took up the case of the stranger. 17 I broke the fangs of the wicked     and snatched the victims from their teeth.

Some other verses that teach us how to "live"

  • Romans 10:9-10 (NIV) If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.

  • Colossians 3
  • Romans 12

He knew the secret to life:

I don't ever want to have my faith tested like Job's and I thank God for the blessings in my life.  I have learned to be thankful for the testing of my faith in trials and tribulations.  Sometimes it really hurts especially when the one's we love sometimes are the one's who hurt us most, but then I remember - God is in control!!!

Blessings,

D